Comments on: The Affirmative Blowoff: What Girls Do That Annoy Guys http://www.twirlit.com/2009/09/01/the-affirmative-blowoff-what-girls-do-that-annoy-guys/ Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:53:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Kelly Turner http://www.twirlit.com/2009/09/01/the-affirmative-blowoff-what-girls-do-that-annoy-guys/#comment-4960 Kelly Turner Tue, 01 Sep 2009 16:11:07 +0000 http://www.twirlit.com/?p=20618#comment-4960 oh man, I totally do this, but to my friends, no matter their gender. A friend will text and want to hang out this weekend, so I say sure, and then when it comes time to get together I back out either because 1) it sounded like a good idea at the time but when it actually got to be time, I just didnt want to or 2) I had no intention of hanging out, and said yes hoping something would pop up for either of us in the meantime without me having to lie. I suck and my boyfriend yells at me about it all the time. he doesnt understand why I cant just say "I dont want to hang out today," and frankly, I dont know why I cant either. Im not very assertive I suppose. I never do it to guys though, but the whole "I have a boyfriend" thing takes care of that. oh man, I totally do this, but to my friends, no matter their gender. A friend will text and want to hang out this weekend, so I say sure, and then when it comes time to get together I back out either because 1) it sounded like a good idea at the time but when it actually got to be time, I just didnt want to or 2) I had no intention of hanging out, and said yes hoping something would pop up for either of us in the meantime without me having to lie.

I suck and my boyfriend yells at me about it all the time. he doesnt understand why I cant just say “I dont want to hang out today,” and frankly, I dont know why I cant either. Im not very assertive I suppose.

I never do it to guys though, but the whole “I have a boyfriend” thing takes care of that.

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