Comments on: The Worst Letter a Woman Could Get: The Steve Phillips Missive http://www.twirlit.com/2009/10/21/the-worst-letter-a-woman-could-get-the-steve-phillips-missive/ Mon, 13 Feb 2012 03:43:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Melissa Barlow http://www.twirlit.com/2009/10/21/the-worst-letter-a-woman-could-get-the-steve-phillips-missive/#comment-6978 Melissa Barlow Tue, 27 Oct 2009 03:58:28 +0000 http://www.twirlit.com/?p=26345#comment-6978 I also went to Catholic school my entire life (including an all female high school) and was NEVER told that infidelity was okay as long as you were in "love". I also went to Catholic school my entire life (including an all female high school) and was NEVER told that infidelity was okay as long as you were in “love”.

]]> By: Ruth Houston http://www.twirlit.com/2009/10/21/the-worst-letter-a-woman-could-get-the-steve-phillips-missive/#comment-6865 Ruth Houston Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:48:12 +0000 http://www.twirlit.com/?p=26345#comment-6865 The Steve Phillips – Brooke Hundley affair should be a lesson to every cheating man. The average cheating husband knows very little about the woman he is cheating with. So he has no idea of what his mistress is capable of doing, or how she could ruin his life if the situation gets out of control. He’s so eager for sex that he never even bothers to check out her reputation, her background, her motives or her temperament to see what kind of person he is dealing with. If he did, he might have second thoughts about getting involved. It might even convince him to mend his cheating ways. In my 15 years as an infidelity expert, I have never once interviewed, consulted with, or even heard of a cheating man checking his mistress out. For a list of questions a cheating man should ask himself about his mistress, see http://bit.ly/ctOyK What he doesnt know about his mistress could cost him his money, his marriage, his job, his health, his reputation, and maybe even his life. The Steve Phillips – Brooke Hundley affair should be a lesson to every cheating man. The average cheating husband knows very little about the woman he is cheating with. So he has no idea of what his mistress is capable of doing, or how she could ruin his life if the situation gets out of control.

He’s so eager for sex that he never even bothers to check out her reputation, her background, her motives or her temperament to see what kind of person he is dealing with.

If he did, he might have second thoughts about getting involved. It might even convince him to mend his cheating ways.

In my 15 years as an infidelity expert, I have never once interviewed, consulted with, or even heard of a cheating man checking his mistress out. For a list of questions a cheating man should ask himself about his mistress, see http://bit.ly/ctOyK What he doesnt know about his mistress could cost him his money, his marriage, his job, his health, his reputation, and maybe even his life.

]]> By: Maggie http://www.twirlit.com/2009/10/21/the-worst-letter-a-woman-could-get-the-steve-phillips-missive/#comment-6778 Maggie Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:09:05 +0000 http://www.twirlit.com/?p=26345#comment-6778 Hundley certainly seems more than a little bitter over the whole affair, and, sure, her reaction was a little immature. At the same time though, the girl is twenty-two, and who knows really what happened during those three short encounters -- perhaps Mr. Phillips did something to provoke her? Who knows. Not me or you. But really, is it productive to place our scorn on some twenty-something for telling the truth? Wouldn't it be better to place the scorn, and blame, at the feet of Phillips who not only has had a few affairs in the past, but has done his best to hide them each and every time. I mean, he seems like the guy fucking (literally) everything up, not Hundley. As is he the only one to be married, and therefore committing adultery. Point is: girl may be immature and have poor Catholic theology (oh no!), but the dude is the real scumbag in this story. Your last question may have been sarcastic, but it certainly was telling. Hundley certainly seems more than a little bitter over the whole affair, and, sure, her reaction was a little immature. At the same time though, the girl is twenty-two, and who knows really what happened during those three short encounters — perhaps Mr. Phillips did something to provoke her? Who knows. Not me or you.

But really, is it productive to place our scorn on some twenty-something for telling the truth? Wouldn’t it be better to place the scorn, and blame, at the feet of Phillips who not only has had a few affairs in the past, but has done his best to hide them each and every time.

I mean, he seems like the guy fucking (literally) everything up, not Hundley. As is he the only one to be married, and therefore committing adultery. Point is: girl may be immature and have poor Catholic theology (oh no!), but the dude is the real scumbag in this story. Your last question may have been sarcastic, but it certainly was telling.

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