Remember when Cupid’s arrow first struck and you just absolutely knew you had found your love?
It was after that moment that you moved in together, married each other, and started sharing the stressful and superb parts of your life as one. In the midst of finding ways to show your partner he or she is loved on a daily basis, Cupid is asking for one special day of celebration.
Since you likely share bank accounts, it can be difficult to plan a Valentine’s Day that is much of a surprise. But this year, Valentine’s Day does not have to be a surprise to still be romantic. Here are some suggestions for married or committed couples this weekend.
1. Spa Date. Find a spa in your area at www.spafinder.com that offers couples massages. Coordinate each of your schedules, even if it’s not on February 14, to spend a few hours getting a rub down together. Most spas that offer this usually have an in-room jacuzzi for two where the two of you can sit and relax in a romantic setting.
2. Celebrate. Celebrating your love for one another can be more difficult than it sounds. Pick a favorite restaurant or cook at home and spend the evening celebrating each other. This means conversations about money, family, or whose turn it is to clean are off limits. Reminisce about past vacations or your favorite memories together. Make a mix CD of music that reminds you of your partner and play it for them. Spend the evening celebrating the love you have.
3. Get busy. I’m not talking about the before-bed hook up that happens every night. Make an event of getting busy. Light candles, put on the satin sheets, get out the massage oil, and put on your sexiest outfit. Don’t go for the gold right away, though. Spend time loving (spanking, biting, tying up, etc.) your partner. Carve out time to spend Valentine’s Day devoted to each other’s pleasure. Neither of you will be disappointed.
