The art of flirting can be difficult to master and many people in a relationship retire their flirty wink and smile after finding love. But let’s be honest, flirting is fun. Flirting is a woman’s way to get what she wants.
Who says you have to completely cut out the skill you’ve been honing since the playground? Follow these guidelines to flirt within the confines of love.
1. Bring back a wink and a smile. Simply smiling at the clerk behind the counter or the mechanic working on your car can yield some serious flirting benefits. When you are friendly, people naturally want to be friendly back. The wink and smile don’t mean anything other than you being friendly, right? And if it gets the mechanic to not charge you for changing your headlight while he’s changing your oil, all the better.
2. Flirt with your girlfriends. Women do not tend to sing the praises of the other women in their life. Make a habit of telling your lady friends how fabulous they are. When they do something awesome or wear something sexy, tell them how beautiful and intelligent they are. It will boost their self-esteem and your mate will find it sexy.
3. Eye contact. Do not underestimate the power of looking directly in to someone’s eyes. The goal here is not to do a creepy stare-down, but make eye contact, smile, look away – the classic flirt move. Do this when you shake your partner’s boss’ hand while you say, “My husband has told me a lot about you. It’s great to finally meet you.” This simple, flirtatious friendliness will leave the impression that you are friendly and fun.
4. Flirt with your mate. Don’t forget to still flirt with your mate. Smile and wink at him from across the room, lightly touch his leg when you’re out in public. These subtle ways of letting him know you still find him sexy will remind him of how the two of you were when you first met.
5. Walk the line. If you are a flirting machine, tread carefully in this territory. Remember, your goal is not to snag a new partner, it’s just to be friendly and fun. If you employ these tips while wearing your mini skirt and thigh-high boots, you are bound to give the wrong impression.
The key here is that flirting is a subtle art. If you are obnoxiously giggling while making eye contact and falling all over people, that is not flirting, it’s being trashy. Think Marilyn Monroe not Paris Hilton.
I enjoyed reading this article. I found it extremely entertaining. I will definitely try to employ these techniques in the near future!